Thursday, January 18, 2018

Awakening to New Life

Several years ago, I heard a story about a boy who was shot and killed over a pair of shoes.  The boy was shot right outside the house of a girl who was a part of the youth group I was leading.  The death shook the community, and it struck me because it was so senseless.  How could something so dreadful happen for such an irrational purpose?  Unfortunately, I realize that most of the terrible acts that are committed are done for rather absurd reasons.  Very few criminals are part of organized crime rings, or have spent any time thinking ahead at all.  Instead a person makes a choice that seems to feel right in the moment…


Sessions include team-building exercises to help foster group cohesion and respect.
Teens learning new was of looking at the world!
I thought of this story when I read an article entitled Therapy Helps Troubled Teens Rethink Crime, by Shankar Vedantam.  Affected teens in this study were simply shown how powerful their words could be.  For most of these kids, violence was the only way they had ever solved problems.  By opening the eyes of these teens to new tools and ways of looking at the world, researchers found they were 44% less likely to commit a crime.  However, if they didn’t continue to receive therapy or continued guidance they reverted back to their old habits within a year. 


This month we are looking at Epiphanies, or moments of awakening in the church.  I think we all need to believe there are skills and tools available to help us grow.  Today I wonder what you can do to sharpen your skills and open your eyes?  Perhaps we can take a little extra time for reflection, or maybe we can talk with a friend or counselor.  Growth is important for us all.  I hope we can all take time to grow this season!


Blessings!



Brian

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